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Don't expect anything from life, life knows what to give you and when. -Jignesh Ahalgama

What happens when we trust someone, but when we realize we have been cheated? How can we strengthen ourselves to get out of this situation?

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I got these questions from one of my readers.  It is an extension of my previous story "Why don't pain and problems leave me alone in my life? I'm stuck in it. I can't get out of it." She mentioned in her question that when we trust the ship but what if it breaks down on its own. She gave the example of the Titanic. In the same way when we trust people but they cheat us it becomes a very difficult situation to handle. How to strengthen ourselves to overcome it? She is not the only one facing such a situation. We all face such a situation at least once in our lives. Titanic is a very interesting and relevant example. It is said that the manufacturer claimed the Titanic is the safest ship ever. They had took all the safety measures to make it. But tragedy is inevitable. People believed and unfortunately the Titanic was sunk in the middle of the sea. Now think what would you do if you were on a sunken Titanic? You are not responsible for that tragedy or you do not

Complexity of life

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We tend to think of life as something very complicated when in reality, it is only as complicated as we make it for ourselves.

The importance of place/ position in your life.

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D o you agree that place/ position is very important in our lives? Your value and life depends on the place / position you choose. If you are talented, but you choose the wrong place, you are worthless. You can't add any value there. But if you do not know anything and you are in the right place, you will become a valuable asset and increase in value there. Let me explain it another way. "0" has no value, "1" has value. What happens if you put "0" before "1". "01" does not change anything, the value of both is the same as before. But if you put "0" after "1" it will be "10".  Everything is just a matter of places/ position. So my dear friend stay in the right place at the right time. No one will stop you from succeeding.

Profit and Loss

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Someone's loss is someone's profit. This is a closed cycle, nothing can be added or deleted by yourself. This could be applied in each and every situation of your life.

Learned an important lesson about investing from the kitchen. Do you want to be financially stable? The concept should be understood.

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The kitchen is full of things from which we can learn the most important lessons of life. Today I want to emphasize the importance of investing in our lives. I learn that from my kitchen. I saw potatoes in my kitchen. What is its significance in our lives? How can you use it? It can be used to make delicious curries, french fries, chips, vadapav etc. This list could be longer than we imagined. It is a very important thing in our lives. Life cannot be complete without it. Do you agree? But I find in my kitchen that the stock of potatoes is reducing day by day when I start making my favorite dishes. I realized that the day would soon come when I would lose it all. I can't imagine my life without it. So, I took 2 potatoes and cut them into small pieces. I plant those pieces in my home garden. Over time it gives me more potatoes out of it. I understand the process but it is very difficult to determine how many potatoes I can spend for planting? Because, once I cut it and plant it in th

Rabbit and turtle

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In the story of the rabbit and the turtle, why did the rabbit lose in the race? T he rabbit was ahead of the turtle and he thought he could relax a little. Therefore, he can run very fast after resting. But that rest led to his defeat. So, wherever you are, don't stop for rest, keep moving and you will win the race.

How can I trust God? I can't believe in him.

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Trust is an element, you cannot see it. But you can experience it and through that realization, you can get what you want in your life. I would like to share one of my experiences to explain the importance of faith in a life. I was going with my two-year-old son. Suddenly he fell and his leg was injured. He was crying and bleeding from the wound. I blew air through my mouth on his wound and he stopped crying. I asked if you were still in pain. He said no, it's okay now. Do you think I have magic in my mouth? Yes, that is the magic of faith. He believes that everything will be fine if I blow air on his wound. He trusted me and he felt good. So, my dear friend it was just a belief and it can heal a pain in a fraction of a second. Therefore, trust in God is the same. Everything in your life will be better if you believe in it and give 100%. Keep trusting god. He is always in control even when your circumstances may seem out of control. Faith is trusting god even when you don’t

Are you an entrepreneur? Is Business Coaching hoax? Why do you need a business coach to grow your business?

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  I was discussing with an entrepreneur friend of mine. "Business coaching is a hoax and I don't think they can help me to grow my business. I can't grow my business by their coaching. I need to start a business and over time I can learn how to grow it" he said. I partially disagree with his views on business coaching. I would like to mention a short story here to illustrate this point. This was shared with him too. When I was in school I read at least 3-4 times to understand each chapter. But when the teacher teaches and explains the meaning of each sentence, what I have seen, I can remember the chapter and write the exam even without reading. So this is an experience not only mine but everyone. Now correlate your study with business and teacher with business coach. Do you understand the importance of a business coach now? When you are new to the business and you want to start it without any guidance, you will need more time to understand every aspect of the bu

Motivation from Website

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You are a website, your thoughts are a code and your behavior is a webpage. Become a good web designer for your own website. -Jignesh Ahalgama

Happiness Mantra: A thought

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"When a thought bothers you, speak up and laugh at it. It will feel ashamed and not come again." -Jignesh Ahalgama Author of "Secrets of a complex life"

I want to succeed. Why should I read books? How will it help me in my life?

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This is a great question and many are thinking so. Before answering your question I would like to tell you some facts about people who spend a lot of time reading books. Renowned, successful businessman Warren Buffett recommends that, for those who want to succeed, we should read 500 pages every day. “Buffett spends about six hours a day reading books. For most busy people it can be a daunting prospect, but only if you are willing to work. He says how knowledge works - it becomes like compound interest. " The former CEO of Microsoft Bill gates reading 50 books a year or about one book a week. The Facebook CEO vowed to read a book every other week "with an emphasis on learning about different cultures, beliefs, history and techniques," he wrote in a Facebook post. Long before he became Tesla's CEO, a young Elon Musk read science-fiction novels for 10 hours a day. So my dear friends look at these facts. Every successful person has a habit of reading and they are ta

She left me. I can't live without her. Was it love or attachment? What should I do now?

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Answer: I admit that this is a very emotional and painful question. It is not just about two individuals who love each other. In every relationship we feel some attachment with each other and how sad we feel in our life when they leave us. It is unbearable pain and the person will break down. Many youngsters are troubled by this question. They try to come out of it but due to feelings and attachment they take wrong decision. My dear friend, just think that you are the only person with whom this is happening? Your answer would be "no". So what are they doing to come out of it? Moreover, have you ever tried to understand that you were both in true love or that it was just an attachment? To understand love I would like to mention a true love story. The Krishna, this name we all know. He taught us the true meaning of love. Love is not always something to be achieved. Sometimes, it has to be a sacrifice. Krishna loves Radha unconditionally. They both love each other without any

Why don't pain and problems leave me alone in my life? I'm stuck in it. I can't get out of it.

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Answer: My dear friend, first I want to ask you that, what are you doing to come out from this situation? You need to understand and accept that everyone has problems and pains in their lives. The severity of the problem may vary from person to person. But everyone should take appropriate steps to deal with them. What if you sit there wondering why this happened to me and you don't take any action, you will never get out of it. I would like to mention a short story here; it will help you understand the importance of taking action towards the problem. You are enjoy boating and suddenly you fall into the sea. So what will you do then? At first you don't understand what happened, nothing comes to your mind. But after a while you will start swimming towards the boat. Here you have a chance to save your life when you reach the boat. If you are just wondering why this happened to me and you do not take any action, the chances of saving your life will be very less. Your question i